About David Anderson

In David’s own words… 

My passion is to free people from society’s conditioning and restrictions about sexuality, sensuality and intimacy and to provide information on how to connect in a more heartfelt and meaningful manner. The restrictions and beliefs we have about sexuality and intimacy stop us from being fully present in relationships, and hinder fulfillment of our sexual and intimate needs and desires. My greatest desire is to support people to live Tantric lifestyles ignited by full hearts, giving and receiving love, passion and joy.

I grew up feeling disconnected from the people around me. I felt alone, as though I was in the wrong place. I carried a great sense of loss with no hearts to connect to, and the world seemed like an unsafe place.

After many relationships that lasted only one or two years I stopped dating, believing I needed to stop affecting women. They miraculously changed from lovely pleasant people into dominant, judgemental and at times abusive women. I thought I caused this, and I know now that I did this through my thoughts and feelings. At work one day, aged 45, after a more than unpleasant interaction with my female boss, I started to feel a very uncomfortable tingling in my middle upper back. I said to myself “I need some help”. I had heard of Rebirthing and Breathwork. So I researched the nearest practitioner and ended up training as a practitioner myself.

After three or so years of breathwork, I participated in a men’s tantric weekend workshop, which confronted me with many fears. Sex and intimacy was never something which was comfortable for me. Sex was something I was drawn to out of animal instinct; I wasn't good at sex, and intimacy was foreign to me.

After about five years of healing myself on a heart level and realising the gold I received when I was in a state to receive connection, love and intimacy, I did some tantric  sessions with Martina at Tantric Blossoming. When I received Martina’s email about a 9 month training I knew I had to participate.

There are too many things I have realised, seen, experienced, left behind and become from Tantra to relate all of them here. The most amazing insights I have been blessed to receive are:

• How much I used to ‘numb out’, so that I didn’t have to connect.
• The knowledge of how much pain I was in around sex, love and intimacy.
• How little I knew about sex and how disconnected I was from any partner I had.

Tantra has given me:

• freedom from my fears,
• a further understanding of love, connection and intimacy,
• and it has softened me even more.

I find that I am far more allowing and nurturing, which facilitates a safe place for people to be vulnerable and accept nurturing whilst going through their own healing process.

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